Marianne Williamson writes in her foreword to this book, “In the area of sacred intimacy, David Deida is holding a lightning bolt. He sheds an astonishing light.” Dear Lover is written “as if you were my lover. Although you may be single or married, I offer these words to you as I would to my beloved.”

Addressed to woman, this intimate and poetic tantric book explores the gifts of making love, your true heart and its shells, trusting your man to open you, the two-bodied play of love, orgasmic love, loving larger than fear, showing your heart’s light in public, ending relationships and the him-shaped void, spiritual sexiness, offering or betraying your heart, why men hold back, and much more.

Your capacity to open in oneness with a man’s presence is your spiritual capacity for sexual surrender. Your man can feel whether or not you are surrendering open in yearning invitation for him to merge with your love-light and claim your heart. If you don’t trust a man fully, then, of course, you won’t surrender fully open with him.

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To live with an open heart and body moved by love is your only option if you want to fulfill your deepest desire—to receive and give love’s most full bliss—with or without a man.

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True sex is about divine intimate communion, heart-to-heart worship, opening as love’s bliss, offering your deepest gifts to each other. This two-bodied sexual offering prepares you for opening beyond yourself so you can offer your deepest gifts in every moment to all beings, opening as love’s light through every body.

Also by David Deida are Wild Nights and The Enlightened Sex Manual.