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The Four Agreements

A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
Paperback Book
New World Library
November, 1997
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$17.95 CAD
Banyen's Description: 

Raised in Mexico by a curandera (healer) mother and a nagual (shaman) grandfather, don Miguel Ruiz only returned to his native wisdom tradition after his training as a surgeon and a near-death experience at the wheel of his car.

In The Four Agreements, an elegant little wisdom book, he explains how everything we do is based on agreements we have made—agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are the ones we make with ourselves. In these agreements we tell ourselves who we are, how to behave, what is possible, what is impossible. One single agreement is not such a problem, but we have many agreements that come from fear, deplete our energy, and diminish our self-worth.

In The Four Agreements, don Miguel reveals the source of self-limiting agreements that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. When we are ready to change these agreements, there are four deceptively simple, yet powerful agreements that we can adopt as guiding principles. Based on traditional Toltec wisdom, the Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that, if lived, can transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.


Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

Don’t make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

Publisher’s Description: 

Rooted in traditional Toltec beliefs, these four agreements are essential steps on the path to personal freedom: Be impeccable with your word; Say only what you mean; The word is the most powerful tool humans have; Don't take anything personally; Self-importance leads people to think they are the center of the universe, causing pain and injustice; Don't make assumptions. To avoid frustration and blame, ask what is meant; Always do your best. This is the surest way to avoid self- condemnation, though it is important to realize one's best is always changing.Don Miguel Ruiz presents a code of conduct that seeks to introduce lives to a new experience of freedom, happiness and love. These Four Agreements - be impeccable with your word, don’t take anything personally, don’t make assumptions, and always do your best - are offered in the context of ancient Toltec wisdom as liberators of the soul. Each Agreement offers inspiration and enlightenment for life’s journey.

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